Life Begins at Ninety Blog #29, Mother’s WEEK in Oregon!
It all happened because
I was late returning my book to the library branch near my home in the Village
of Oak Creek near Sedona.
Suddenly I see dangling
feet... A man was sitting on the back of a truck in the parking lot taking
pictures. So I asked him if he could
take a picture of me from my own phone camera.
As he did that, his adorable wife Zoe showed up... They went with me to
return my book and then walked back to my place to see my paintings.
After seeing the paintings and my book lying on the table, he said, “I am Bill
Willetts from Oregon. When I return home I will swap my book for yours,
and send you the book my mother wrote when she was 95, like you are about to be.” I learned that she came as the youngest
daughter of a large family from Italy through Ellis Island, and was interviewed
about her immigrant experience as part of the Ellis Island museum.
In a week we got a lovely
package containing a book, a chocolate bar and a mug with a picture and logo of
Five Pines on them, as well as printed information about the lodge he had built. We thanked him, and received an unexpected
surprise: an invitation to be their guest for 3 days. Monday – Wednesday May
4-6, checking out on Thursday morning, May 7.
The cabins are fully booked Thursday – Sunday, so the beginning of the
week was good for them and good for us too. Never did I dream that I could ask Alicia
to skip a Friday evening service, but she agreed that we would go, and not rush
back. There would be a lay-led service
on Friday at the Sedona synagogue, and we would take our time with an extra day
to come home.
Alicia began to read the
book, and loved it. The print was too small for me, so Alicia read parts out
loud to me about the fascinating story of Bill’s mother’s life.
So we planned Mother’s
Week... Why just one day? Like a Polish
wedding or birthday… lasts all week!
We had to take two small
planes from Phoenix via San Francisco to reach this small airport at Redmond,
Oregon.
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| Nika on the plane reading a book downloaded into her android phone |
Then Alicia rented a fiery red Dodge Journey, perfect name for
this trip. Just couldn’t find any place to plug in the GPS so she had to
navigate the old fashioned way – with a little, inaccurate tourist map, and asking
directions. We arrived at what looked like an enchanted pine forest…vertical lines
of hundreds of tree trunks reaching to the sky.
There is a lodge, and a
conference center, a spa called Shibui, run by Bill’s wife Zoe, and many
cabins with different designs..ours was the Caboose Cabin, with an extra alcove
for Alicia’s bed.
Alicia adds: Nika couldn’t understand what animal was leaving all
those thousands of droppings under the trees…. I laughed and told her they were
pine cones!!!
Alicia drove us to the
nearby town of Sisters, all of several blocks long, with cute little houses
turned into galleries, stores, and restaurants.
In the Conference Center, everything was dedicated to Bill‘s mother Elda, with inspiring quotes about forgiveness from his mother written on large wooden plaques. The family pictures were framed and displayed in the central entryway, making this public space homey and personal.
Zoe and Bill have been
married for many years, since she was 16 and he 18... Their parents had
been against their getting married so early, but she got pregnant and against
everyone’s advice they did get married and kept the child, and created a life
and large family together. Now they have grandchildren already in
college! What a strong, loving, family life they created!
This Five Pines Lodge
was built only 8 years ago after many years of Bill’s having businesses in
sales and design. Read the book to find out more...
It is called
“The Sugar’s at the Bottom of the Cup.” The lodge is located in Sisters,
Oregon, named after the Three Sisters Mountains nearby. If you want to smell
the best, cleanest air ever, we highly recommend you go there and enjoy this
fairy tale spot. People return year
after year… We read some of their reflections in a journal in the cottage with
entries from families who visited again and again..
Alicia: On Wednesday, our
second full day at the Five Pines Lodge, Nika decided to rest in the cabin so I
went exploring to find the Head of the Metolius River, suggested as a
remarkable destination for anyone visiting the area. I drove among miles of pine trees, parked –
the only car in the whole parking lot – and started walking down the path. The only companion I had was a lively
chipmunk. I did reach the spot where one has a view of the flowing river, but
the air was very cold, and the sky was grey, so I turned around and quickly
headed back.
The highlight of our
trip, however, was not the meanderings downtown, nor the exploration of the
Head of the Metolius River, but the
dinner at the Open Door Restaurant inside the Clearwater Gallery in Sisters. In
the evening, they put tables into the gallery space and instantly it becomes a restaurant.
Alicia: Bill knew of my mother’s love of art, and so picked this
fine dining venue in the midst of paintings and sculptures for a family
gathering to which we were invited.
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We hugged Bill and Zoe,
and then were introduced to their son Greg, and his sons Sean and
Gabriel. We also got up and walked around the small gallery, and met all
the other diners. At one large table were
people who hold a regular Italian conversation group, so we practiced speaking
Italian with them. Other diners exchanged email addresses with us.
Very friendly, warm atmosphere!
We exchanged gifts with
Bill and Zoe, and felt like extended family. We hope to meet the rest of the
family in the future.
After our three days in
this fairy tale like place, we made a detour to Bend, Oregon, on Thursday
morning, where Alicia found (after a few stops to ask) the Old Mill District,
which in our minds would be a kind of promenade along the Dechutes River with
tables and cafes and cute local shops.... No such thing. It was indeed an
old brick mill with smokestacks turned into an outdoor mall with Chico’s and all
the usual franchise shops... And... it was bitter cold and windy. So, never
mind, we just went, much earlier than expected, back to the Redmond Airport to
drop off the car, and wait for the shuttle from the Comfort Suites Inn to pick
us up. We had both agreed that it would be too rushed to return back home after
those 3 days... Rather we decided to stay at a hotel for one more night before
flying back to Sedona the next morning, Friday. Kind of time to decompress.
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We got to this hotel
expecting nothing but a clean room. We open the window curtains, and Oh My
God...there was a rushing, turbulent, torrent of water right under our
window. Alicia yelled out, “Mom, the river, finally!!!” Actually it
is an irrigation channel for watering fields downstream, but for us, hey, this
was The River!!!
After shuttling us to a
quaint restaurant nearby with tasty sandwiches, we rested, and then decided to
utilize the pool. Had a swim, and then didn’t want to dress again or go out for
dinner.
So… had a picnic feast in our
room: Champagne and mango juice (try it!), and microwaved chicken pot pies from
the choices at the front desk kiosk.
Great, restful sleep, and then after breakfast
provided by the hotel, they took us in their shuttle to the local Redmond
Airport. and... believe it or not, there was NO ONE THERE... I mean
empty!!! I guess the rest of the locals knew to come only 10 minutes before the
flight.
The whole of Friday, May
8, it took us 12 hours to return to Sedona... two short flights, but a lot of
waiting in between, and the two hour long shuttle ride back to Sedona, made
comfortable by Ed of Red Rock Transportation.
Today, Sunday, May 10,
is Mother's Day, and Alicia brought daisies (you know I hate roses), and we sat
down together to write this blog about our Mother’s Week. I dictate,
and she types and ads her own comments.
I always need to have
something to look forward to…. and now that this Oregon adventure is passed,
I’m looking forward to my 95th birthday on May 27, and then going to Cape Cod
by June 1 for my 70th summer in Wellfleet, where our children and grandchildren
spent part of their vacation… and now also our great-grandchildren will join
the fun. We will celebrate my birthday,
and the naming of Tali and Craig’s babies, whose American names are Gabriella
Roux and Amalia Belle, this summer in July.
Alicia: It is a custom to give babies their Hebrew name with a
ceremony in which the parents and other relatives welcome the babies into the Covenant
of Judaism through their significant Hebrew lineage names, linking them to
earlier generations. As both a rabbi and a grandmother, I’m looking forward to
both roles in this moving Baby Naming and blessing ceremony!
I wish for every mother
in the world to experience such fun with her own children and create
adventures... So start walking to your local library!
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Later,
Jakub entertained us with romantic music in Glen and Maria’s gallery- we danced and
enjoyed an impromptu evening- that is the best kind.
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